Cultivating Self-Love and Positive Body Image

Today, I have the great pleasure of being the host on Day 9 of Annemiek Douw’s Virtual Blog Tour.

Annemiek’s book 21 Layers of the Soul: Healing the Karmic Ties with Friends, Lovers, Family and Enemies is celebrating its launch from December 2nd to 16th, 2013 at 21 Layers of the Soul.

ANNEMIEK DOUW, MSc is a management coach, light-worker, medium, energetic therapist, trainer and author. Her personal experience with long-term illness combined with her own work as a healer have led her to understand how the soul is an internal compass that continuously guides us. She has helped thousands of clients heal at many levels, teaching them how to read this compass for themselves. In 2011, she shared her unprecedented work in the Dutch language book De ziel in het licht van haar hogere auralagen, which is now available in English under the title 21 Layers of the Soul.
Yesterday, Annemiek visited Krystalya Marie at Empowered Spirit Insights where they discussed The 21 Layers of the Soul, discovering emotions, and tips to help us stop judging.

Today, I’d like to share with you a recent interview I had with Annemiek when I got to ask her some questions on, how we can approach listening to our bodies during our wellness journey. I hope you enjoy it.
ROBYN: What can we discover from the blueprint of our bodies? Can this help us with our wellness journey?

ANNEMIEK: First of all, our blueprint is perfect and therefore our bodies are perfect. Unlike our personal opinion about our bodies that may disagree (legs too short, nose too big, hair too curly) our bodies are exactly the way we need them to be for this life we planned on Earth. So it’s not about how it looks. Nor is it about how it feels, since sickness or disabilities are often designed into the blueprint for your body. It’s about how you choose to handle the cards you’re dealt.

If you really realize that you only have one body and that it can help you make the right choices, you will want to make friends with it – you will want to nurture and cherish it. The simplest way of doing this is to think about something you really like and that is positive for you – like your pet for example. When you think of him, notice how your body feels – this is a positive anchor. Then think of something negative and notice how the feeling in your body changes – this is a negative anchor.

You can now use this knowledge when you have to make a choice. Does aligning with one option make you feel at ease, stronger and/or happy? Or does it cause you discomfort, pain, or does it make you feel tired? With this information you can opt for the choices that make you feel positive whether that is food, people, jobs or relationships and your life will take a turn for the better.

ROBYN: Annemiek, can you share with our readers some of the steps involved in losing weight the Annemiek way?

ANNEMIEK: I’ve have been overweight all my adult life and now – at the age of 47 – I just lost 48 pounds the Annemiek way. So of course, although I’m not a nutritional expert or doctor, I can share my personal experiences and professional beliefs.

For me it’s all about what your body really needs and what we like doesn’t always match what we need. Therefore, I suggest you start by checking your food allergies. A good doctor or bio-resonance therapist can help you with that and can also prescribe some orthomolecular supplements if you need them. When you only eat foods your body can digest without an allergic reaction in your bowels you’ll see that losing weight is easier. My allergies are: sugar, lactose, ginger, aspartame and soya.

Then make a list of everything you can eat. This is a far more positive focus than obsessing about the cheesecake that you can never have again because you’re lactose intolerant. And do shop for alternative foods like rice milk.
When possible and affordable please eat organic food, especially meat. Hormones and substances like penicillin have become part of the non-organic food chain and can completely disturb your metabolism and cause all kinds of negative side effects e.g. to your thyroid.

Drink loads of water. Your body needs to be able to lose the toxins that are in your cells. Water is also the carrier when your body lets go of the emotions contained in the cells that are shrinking, so please drink a lot. It also helps if you rest. Sleep is crucial when your body is transforming to the new you.

I worked with Weight Watchers online because I needed a computerized way of counting the calories I eat. I also learned that I needed to make sure I used all the calories I had for the day – you don’t speed up the process by eating too little. I combined that with a personal rule – I found out that even when I stayed well below the allowed quantity of calories, I didn’t lose weight when I combined carbs and proteins during supper. Therefore, I now eat lots of vegetables combined with organic meat/fish or carbs like pasta and rice. I now make a mean pasta with veggie sauce – without any cheese of course. I only eat whole meal and I also don’t use ‘light’ or diet products because they contain additives that I believe are simply bad for my health. So I go for the original and use smaller quantities instead.

Still, that’s not the only thing that worked, because of course, I had tried all this before.

Timing was of the essence as well. Although it just takes the time it takes to lose the weight, somewhere in my blueprint and Life Plan I must have stated that it was time now – if safe – for me to let go of all the extra luggage I was carrying around, my shield. So I decided it was time to become the real me, and to look the part, and I did.

ROBYN: Can you share with us what Highly sensitive persons means. Are they like empaths and are these people more prone to weight issues?

ANNEMIEK: Highly Sensitive People (HSP) experience the world with more intensity than other people do because their brains and nervous systems work differently. They aren’t able to filter all the stimuli as efficiently. Triggers such as sound, light, fragrance, temperature, energy, atmosphere and stress all enter their systems more vividly. Because the Highly Sensitive Person (HSP) cannot filter, this results in an over-stressed brain and nervous system which often causes them to withdraw from the world.

In my practice I have met many HSPs who were overweight and carried an unnecessary burden. Often, I felt that the fat was an inconvenient shield that was meant to keep people and their emotions at a distance and shut all other stimuli out. It’s a shame that fat doesn’t actually work that way.

The minute these people started to handle their HSPship differently, they became at ease with themselves, didn’t have to defend themselves against the world anymore and could let go of the extra pounds.


I hope you enjoyed this interview with Annemiek Douw and that you’ll check out her beautiful new book 21 Layers of the Soul. Again, you can find it at 21 Layers of the Soul.

21 Layers of the Soul can help you tap into and master your inner guidance system, to help you navigate to your right path in life. In this book, Annemiek shares more than 100 case histories gathered over 15 years of healing work. During this time she discovered the 21 layers of the aura – something never before revealed in any other healing book.

Meticulously analyzed and defined, Annemiek shows us how exploring these layers can provide us with a clear blueprint of the intricate system that leads us to incarnate on the Earth.

If you’re ready to unravel mysteries that have perplexed you for decades – or perhaps even lifetimes – pick up 21 Layers of the Soul and start to navigate the wonderful journey back to your Self.


To show her appreciation for your support, when you buy 21 Layers of the Soul at 21 Layers of the Soul’s website, Annemiek would like to give you a free, downloadable poster of the 21 aura layers, which you can print out and hang on your wall, so you can get a deeper understanding and connection to your own Soul.

Thanks for reading! Please share your comments and thoughts below. I love reading your feedback.
AND… be sure to follow Annemiek tomorrow when the next stop on her Virtual Blog Tour is Suzanne O’Brien, who will be interviewing Annemiek on letting go of buried emotion & distance healing. To visit that “stop” on the tour, go to Reiki Chick Training

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